THE HURTING ARE EVERYWHERE!

Whether you are reading arrests reports or walking around a department store, you can find many who are presently suffering because someone wanted to prove he is the boss around here!. This one who wants to control those around him can be found in all walks of life. The lives that he touches turn black and blue; he is a small boy who has chosen his idea on how to be a "man". How sad! He knows nothing about being an adult who can cope with life, the personalities of others. He knows little of love and kindness. He chooses to force his supposed status on anyone who is meek enough to accept his 'role'.

She is a quiet peacekeeper who has learned that whatever she says causes things to get worse. She often says nothing, just trying to keep the peace. He takes this as a weakness and barges in. He knows nothing of the strength it takes not to speak up. She is often a strong woman, personality wise, but has given in too many times so he thinks he has 'the upper hand' and presses, or beats, his way into conquering this woman who he considers his punching bag. He usually has little else going for him. When SHE decides to have some backbone and speaks up for herself, he will have a different view of this one he is trying to control. She has to realize that she is a special person with many God-given abilities; she was not meant to be a doormat for a bully. That is all he is: an adult bully who often has little ambition. Then again, he might be a bully because of his status. He can be a big success in the public eye but a total failure at home. He will do anything to keep the public from knowing his faults, even beating up those he claims to love. Sad and sick.

The best decision of her life is to get out of there! He won't change, regardless of the times that he 'won't do it again.' He often gets worse as he gets older. SHE NEEDS TO STEP OUT IF FAITH   and realize that the best is yet to come There is more to living; reach for a forgotten dream; move forward and see a different and better future!
THE FUTURE CAN HOLD WONDERFUL ACCOMPLISHMENTS FOR YOU!!!

SLOWLY BUT SURELY

It takes time to get things right; one can't change everything overnight. Learn to be patient; you have waited this long for a better life, wait until the results of your efforts come together. Everything can't be just right this moment; give time an opportunity to get the results you want.
Before you make decisions, think long and hard about the possibilities from every angle. Consider what is best for you and your family. Every decision you make will affect not only your life but also any children you might have. Don't rush into anything, take your time in making your decision. Realize, however, that it is up to YOU to reach for that better life.
After you make a decision, stick with it. You have considered all aspects of your choice so go for it! You and your family CAN have a life that is more calm and peaceful without all the painful words and bruises and possibly worse. Look forward to the future instead of dreading tomorrow!

YOU CAN GET A NEW LIFE!

I know that life where you are living is miserable and you probably have no hope for the future. Please re-think that point; don't give up hope! All of us need hope, that something that makes us keep trying; we can't stop moving toward the future. No one else can do it for you; it all depends on YOU!  It is your decision to reach for a better future and once you decide, go all out for your goal. I am an example that it CAN happen! Put some iron in your backbone and hang in there!

EXCITEMENT!!!

I am getting excited about my new book! It should be available within a month and I am praying that the content will inspire women to reach for a better life. Each has been given certain abilities that will help her become the woman that God meant her to be.  She might be down but not out! Don't give up! Hang in there and, with God's help, each of you can live a rewarding life and face the daily challenges unafraid! Try it! Remember to look for THE HOUSE OF ESTHER.